When I was about the age of 9 my sister was 11 and I saw her looking at the computer my mom had. She called me over and asked me if I knew what I was looking at I said no. It was a girl naked doing things and she told me she would show me what it was and proceeded to do things to me. It sickens me to this day and I do not ever want to bring it up to anyone I know. Now my sister has a lot of things she could use against me if I told I told on her nothing super bad just things like I’m not a virgin that would kill my mom. I have no clue what to do. I don’t even think she thinks I remember

i want to die. it’s crazy this is the first time I’ve actually written that because I’m scared of the truth. I always thought mentally I was okay. I thought I could do it or I could just forget I’m sad. I know, it sounds stupid but genuinely I want to be happy. I want to stop thinking I’ll kill myself. I want to stop trying to find excuses why I should stay alive. Recently the excuse of my mom hasn’t been helping. And now I’m scared one day I’ll be done.it started after my cousin touched me when I was 6. i remember it like it was yesterday. I removed the feelings I had while he touched me. I remember the fear I felt and how I wanted to run. I remember all the people in the room watching it happen and not helping. I also remember me not saying anything for weeks because I was afraid my family would yell at me. And then it happened when I was 9, 11 and 14. I remember everything and I’ve never told a soul what happened. I mean ofc people know but not how many times or who did it. I refuse to be labeled as a victim. Because those who are, are just the victims. Not the survivors and not the ones who made a change. I can’t go to my friends because they never really have time for me. I’ll make time for them always idc I worked three full time jobs at once and always made time. But I understand sometimes it might be harder for others. It’s okay.

• June 25, 2023