When i was 13, i was at my Aunt and uncles once, i used their hand towel to wipe my ass after a shit because there was no toilet paper and then i threw the towel in the bin by the sink. It had shit stains all over it. I then realised the toilet roll was kept in the cupboard next to the toilet. I dont know what i was thinking, i guess my aunt found it in the bin and was utterly disgusted. I cant look her in the eyes anymore, i know she knows... i just know.

I was 15 yrs old (girl). When My dad randomly took me on over an hour long car drive. At first I was really excited bc “YAY dad is surprising me with lunch, a trip, etc”. Nope. He started telling me about how “horrible” and “mentally abusive” my mother was to him during their 17 year marriage. Then proceeded to tell me how he was unfaithful to my mom starting after their first year of marriage. He was calling her mentally abusive while he went off and had affairs with only god knows how many women. He told me he wanted a divorce after 3 yrs but he was to chicken to ask for one. after all that (and many more traumatizing confessions) he went on to tell me that he and my stepmother (who’s 20 yrs younger than him) were going to move out of state bc “my bitchy attitude towards her”. Butttt you know that’s fine bc “we can FaceTime” . -I couldn’t do anything for that whole hour except stare out the window crying, while he was confessing all that to me. Ive never told anyone about that. I’m the only one in my family that knows my stepmother wasn’t the only women he cheated on my mom with. Should I tell someone?

• July 16, 2023