I've known my best friend for nearly 10 yrs and we're super close, but i feel like we're drifting. Like it's mostly just a one sided friendship now. He almost never texts first, never wants to hang out jus the 2 of us, and I really like him but I don't know how to tell him. Once when I brought it up he just said he doesn't date close friends, which I get bc of what happened when he dated friends in the past. But when I can make a list of friends he's dated, it kinda just feels like an excuse at this point. And when he says he wants to hang out with someone who's not to good of a person, can make time for her outside of school but never me, I felt kinda hurt that he'd say that. But I don't know how to bring any of this up to him without seeming like im trying to control him, or break up his friendship.