I was walking on a bridge and saw someone about to kill herself, I ran up to her and we talked for a good hour. I suggested she go to a mental hospital, she promised too as long as she saw me again. I obliged and picked her up when she got out, later we went out a couple times and started dating and we were happy. One day we had a big fight and she stormed out, cheated on me and when I found out I called her and told her I wish I’d never met her on that bridge. We broke up and she dated the man she cheated on me with. Didn’t hear from her, no contact, nothing. One day I felt compelled to go to the bridge I had met her at. I saw a memorial at the bridge. Whilst we had no contact, she killed herself on that same bridge. I wish I had never made that stupid remark. I love you V.

I been thinking real hard about even relaying these awful things about the person that I have admired the most, the person I have respected and revered my whole life but that now, has completely backstabbed me in the worst way possible. A few years ago, a scandal broke in my political family involving my mother. As you can imagine, it nearly broke my marriage and tore my husband’s family apart. My sister in law found my father in law and my mom talking on social media. The worst part of it, when I was confronted, I was accused of knowing about the whole affair and made it looked like I was an accomplice to the whole ordeal. When I had absolutely no clue to such a disgusting mess. I don’t know what neither of them were trying to accomplish and now, I’m the black sheep of the family. No one talks to me. While my father in law is still loved and honored. My mother the home wrecker and I pay the sins of her ordeals. She never once has said I’m sorry. Never! In her head, I’m better off without that side of the family. But it’s not about that; why did she do this to me? Why my father in law? Among so many men? Why him! I guess I’m just looking for an explanation and I know I will never get it from her. Because she just cannot accept she did anything wrong. I wish I could get her version because as of now, I only know everyone else’s but her’s. I always thought I didn’t need to hear her side because it’s not my place to question her, but I have kids who now have to suffer for her sins as well. I don’t think it’s fair to them either. I guess the damage is done as well and the past is the past. I won’t get nothing accomplished but I just want an acknowledgment from her part that she messed up.

• August 12, 2023