I'm Mormon. When i was 16 I lost my vcard by r@p3 in my school parking lot. it was terrifying. I told my bishop, he told me that it was because im 'promiscuous'. i never wore anything inappropriate, my parents were extremely modest. my bishop went on to tell my young womens leaders that i couldnt be around any of the younger girls anymore due to my being a bad influence. He also told me that im lucky that i wasnt pregnant, because i would be excommunicated. i got a positive test, but luckily it got lighter and stopped reading as positive. One of my leaders (who was pregnant with their miracle baby) told her husband, and at the very beginning of covid, he got my number somehow and started messaging me-using personal information about my family to scare me. He got me to send pictures, and due to us being in the same neighborhood, almost got me to come over-i didnt want to but i was so scared. Luckily it didnt come to that. Somehow, the police got involved-but i dodnt want my leaders husband to go to jail because my leader is the best...so i didnt say anything. my bishop came over to my house and told me that i needed to admit to everything being my fault because i attract that. he didnt let me graduate seminary because i 'wasnt worthy'. To this day, i am almost certain that his wife still doesnt know. it breaks my heart and i feel so bad. Hes trying to become a teacher too. i dont know if i should tell her-its been 2 years. or any advice on how to do it anonymously. i dont want to lose her but i want her to thrive and i know theyre so happy right now.
