I live in small African country called Uganda,2019 I had my dad's elder brother who gave me a car drive on loan for period of 2 years,I paid him weekly without fail and whenever I would fail to raise that weekly payments I had to sell an item in my house to cover up, luckily I managed to finish the loan after aperiod and then this guy turned against me ,I had all agreements written together with him but he acted weird and never wanted to transfer car ownership to mehe hesitately refused to pass ownership for good,I ended up lossing the car,I ended up going back to zero after all those years for nothing,till today am still struggling to stand back on my feet,i left everything to almighty God.i lost my time,my property,TILL NOW I LOST TRUST MORE OF ESPECIALLY ANYTHING TO DO WITH PEOPLE AND LOVE,is it possible to love and trust again?

I been thinking real hard about even relaying these awful things about the person that I have admired the most, the person I have respected and revered my whole life but that now, has completely backstabbed me in the worst way possible. A few years ago, a scandal broke in my political family involving my mother. As you can imagine, it nearly broke my marriage and tore my husband’s family apart. My sister in law found my father in law and my mom talking on social media. The worst part of it, when I was confronted, I was accused of knowing about the whole affair and made it looked like I was an accomplice to the whole ordeal. When I had absolutely no clue to such a disgusting mess. I don’t know what neither of them were trying to accomplish and now, I’m the black sheep of the family. No one talks to me. While my father in law is still loved and honored. My mother the home wrecker and I pay the sins of her ordeals. She never once has said I’m sorry. Never! In her head, I’m better off without that side of the family. But it’s not about that; why did she do this to me? Why my father in law? Among so many men? Why him! I guess I’m just looking for an explanation and I know I will never get it from her. Because she just cannot accept she did anything wrong. I wish I could get her version because as of now, I only know everyone else’s but her’s. I always thought I didn’t need to hear her side because it’s not my place to question her, but I have kids who now have to suffer for her sins as well. I don’t think it’s fair to them either. I guess the damage is done as well and the past is the past. I won’t get nothing accomplished but I just want an acknowledgment from her part that she messed up.

• August 12, 2023