When I was like 10-11 I moved with my dad and his fiancé and that was around the time I met the fiance’s brother (step uncle, will now call SU) and he seemed really nice to me and I liked hanging around him because he didn’t really censor stuff and liked the same stuff I did. But something always felt really off about him to me…? Like he would always ask me if I thought he was handsome (he’s like 35 at that point) and talk to me about how he felt like no woman wanted him and how ugly he felt and his acne scars and then immediately after he would ask me if I would like him or date him or if I think he’s handsome and stuff. He’d also talk to me about seggs and his gf’s noods (just talk not show) and talked to me about an anime where the plot is literally a hs girl trying to sleep with 100 guys. A couple years later and he texts me about how I never talk to him anymore (his sis and my dad split) and I should text him every day and he’d keep me up to like 3AM talking about his sewerslidal thoughts and attempts and trauma. Then the last time I saw him in person he had me fully spoon with him and I was little spoon and had me watching some fight video that even he wasn’t rlly excited about so I feel like he just did that to keep me there. Also his hugs were always super tight and long. But idk I just always felt unsafe with him. Last time I brought this up online I was attacked about how he’s just a traumatized vet and I need to stop making this something it isn’t. (In that version i specified the background of his trauma) but anyways am I just dramatic or something? His sis and my dad never rlly said anything but I don’t know if they even knew :/